anapekṣaḥ śucir dakṣa udāsīno gata-vyathaḥ sarvārambha-parityāgī yo mad-bhaktaḥ sa me priyaḥ
"One who is free from wants, pure, capable, neutral, free from distress, renouncing all undertakings, that devotee is dear to Me."
What This Means:
More qualities: expecting nothing from others, pure in body and mind, skillful and capable, impartial, free from worry, not initiating self-centered projects. Such devotees are dear to Krishna.
Going Deeper:
Six more qualities: (11) anapekṣaḥ, expecting nothing, (12) śuciḥ, pure (internal and external), (13) dakṣaḥ, capable, efficient (devotion doesn't mean incompetence!), (14) udāsīnaḥ, neutral, impartial, (15) gata-vyathaḥ, free from distress, (16) sarvārambha-parityāgī, renouncing self-initiated undertakings. Note 'dakṣa', devotees should be competent, not helpless.
How To Apply This:
'Anapeksha' (expecting nothing) is liberating. When you help someone, expect nothing in return, not gratitude, not reciprocation. This freedom from expectation eliminates most disappointment.
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